Well, it sounds like you have that part figured out! What is it you're worried about? Have you already asked this person on a date? If so, I suppose what would be next is to figure out what they like! I think the only real important thing about dating is to enjoy your time together.
yeah, she's a princess too and a king technically since she usurped her dingwad of a dad
we're dating right now total early stages though still finding our feet and i'm not sure if dating a human comes with specific expectations or things i should know
I'd hope that he wants the same thing. It might be best to ask him what he does want from you. That way, you don't have to guess. Perhaps your people are different, but I've always been pretty bad at guess what people want. Asking makes it a lot easier. It might be awkward at first, but it'll be better, in the end.
huh you've got a good point there i really don't want to be guessing or making any assumptions with him and we've already pretty good at talking to each other, so it might not be that awkward
Really? I haven't met another king here yet! Only princesses.
Then it sounds like you two have a great foundation. Keep talking. Talk about what you want, what you like, what you don't like. I think that's the best way to make sure that you're giving each other what you want.
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Well, it sounds like you have that part figured out!
What is it you're worried about? Have you already asked this person on a date? If so, I suppose what would be next is to figure out what they like! I think the only real important thing about dating is to enjoy your time together.
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and a king technically since she usurped her dingwad of a dad
we're dating right now
total early stages though
still finding our feet
and i'm not sure if dating a human comes with specific expectations or things i should know
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[ Usurping is a bit of a touchy subject with Wu ]
I suppose you should start from what you expect. What do you want from them?
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no more Shakespearean scheming and machinations, just people being honest
uh i don't know
haven't really thought about that
i guess for him to be happy?
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I'd hope that he wants the same thing.
It might be best to ask him what he does want from you. That way, you don't have to guess. Perhaps your people are different, but I've always been pretty bad at guess what people want. Asking makes it a lot easier. It might be awkward at first, but it'll be better, in the end.
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huh you've got a good point there
i really don't want to be guessing or making any assumptions with him
and we've already pretty good at talking to each other, so it might not be that awkward
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Then it sounds like you two have a great foundation. Keep talking. Talk about what you want, what you like, what you don't like. I think that's the best way to make sure that you're giving each other what you want.
Can I ask, who are you dating?
[ He's a gossip, forgive him ]
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ok, i'll try
Varian, i'm dating Varian
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I have faith in you, Fern! I haven't met Varian, but Mako speaks highly of him.
Good luck!